In a "new relationship" how much difference does it makes if a female hold off on taking it to the bedroom?

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Permalink Reply by BRADLEY PRINCE on November 25, 2009 at 2:13am

naw it dont matter because if u grown it dont really bother u..but 2 the nigahs that be trippin bout it they must be super lame, but trust me if i get it (and not personally talkin about u) but if i do get it trust me i'll will still call u and we can still hang out like civilized people without gettin physical ya feel me!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Courtney on November 27, 2009 at 4:04am

I believe that it depends on the connection between two adults!!! Also if your in a relationship,I believe that it doesn't matter how long it is!!! Its all about your comfort

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Permalink Reply by Trent on November 30, 2009 at 8:43pm

it depends......different situations call fro different measures...everyone above me is actually correct in their own way because some people can fuck on the first date and it doesn't affect their view of the person. they continue dating and act civilized. most of the time tho it's probably best to take it slow. the reason is ay this is if you wait and continue getting to know the person, those annoying dealbreaker type things that come out will show up efore you have given yourself to that person.......on the other hand soe guys are just that sneaky...they'll hold out as long as you make them and the second they get it they'll be gone whether it was 3 months or 12

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Permalink Reply by Tyvian Corry on December 5, 2009 at 3:15pm

It makes a lot of difference in holding off from the bedroom because in todays society we are bombarded with sex, sex, and more SEX!!!!!!!! Now personally speaking I waited seven years for my wife, because I got her when I married her first. Things to consider is how you feel about this person and whether u feel he is worthy of your most innermost expression. You of course have to get to know a man first and feel him out, and see where his sincerity lies with you. If he truly cares about you and respects you for what u are about and how u feel, then he will ultimately let u make that decision. So to answer your question, you just have to follow your heart and trust your instincts.

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Permalink Reply by shawn payne on December 5, 2009 at 5:28pm

me speakin from my experience, i kinda like it when a woman dont wanna do nothin on the 1st few dates, it makes u sit and wonder how good it is i think the longer u hold it the better it feels lol! but then it depends bcus everybody connects differently

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Permalink Reply by Symplee Leena on December 5, 2009 at 10:07pm

You know my boyfriend and I were having a discussion about this not to long ago.... and when we first dated we waited a couple months before doing anything and I tell you it made it so special...I think you should wait cause if you have sex to early then thats all it becomes about... sex should be the icing on a cake not the main focal point...you should know him to when you have sex ya both are comfortable to be freaks and communicate with each other... I used to have sex fast when i was in a relationship but when I met him I decided to do it different and I do not regret it at all... Good Luck hun

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