When Will Men Get Serious??

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Permalink Reply by CynnamenBrown on July 14, 2009 at 7:49pm

Aiiigght AJ... well put. You on point with some shyt. Im just tripping lately off this wack azz game that men be spitting lately. Just been dissecting the BS lately and just wanted to throw it up in the air to yall to get some other opinions about it!

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Permalink Reply by Tyvian Corry on December 5, 2009 at 5:37pm

First off if you understand that he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship, then that's cool, but at the same time why subject urself to the notion of doing things for him if u know he doesn't want a relationship.. Ladies you have a choice and you should be firm in your affirmations that if that's the case, then he needs to keep steppin and find a chick that's gonna go for that crazy situation. Lot's of women do that and get stupid behind brothers that want that. It's one thing that he says that he wants to have a good time maybe a lil sex, or a one night stand. But with all the other demands, just because he wants to use u is simply retarted. Ladies, again, you have a choice, not a gun put to your head.....C'mon ladies step it up and make the men respect you. If he doesn't fit your itinerary for a relationship, then keep it moving. Other applicants are waiting to fill the position.

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Permalink Reply by Rob on December 8, 2009 at 3:12am

All men want there cake and eat it too. It's up to the woman to shut that down asap. If she dosent then she falls into the trap.

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Permalink Reply by Chokolate on January 11, 2010 at 11:19pm

I agree with Tyvian...its about standards and requirements...if he doesnt want anything serious why are you allowing him to put in the serious duty list....He keeps asking you to do stuff for the simple reason is you do it...that wasnt to hard to figure out. If you want more you have to communicate that to him and if he is still doesnt want to step up to the plate sweetie its time to cut your losses..I know its easier said that done becase as women we are emotional so even though he says he doesnt want a relationship we still end up catching feeling...its only natural...But rule #1 NEVER make someone a priority when they list you as an option. Wishing you the best! :)

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