Your Thoughts...Please...

I blog on another site from time to time...and a lot of the forum topics are about Men and Relationships...this one particular blogger decided to lace the women in the forum up so to speak...as to some of the thread questions asked: "Why Do Men Cheat?"..."Why Are Good Black Men so Hard to Find?"..."Why Men Love Hos?"...basically all the why questions...that may generally flow thru a woman's mind from time to time...This is his response in rare form:

Title: BOB SETS THE RECORD STRAIGHT FOR ALL YOU

"why come its so hard to find a good black man?".. "why come men love hos?".. "why come men cheat?".. "why why why?"..


"well, ill tell you why.. its cause men generally dont really like women as much as you think.. we like stuff. we love pussy, cooked food, clean laundry, eye candy, and blow jobs.. and yall just so happen to be great at those things, so we like yall in THAT sense. but not really on a personal level.

dont get me wrong, some of yall are exceptional, and actually have a personality.. but its not as many as you think. if you took sexual attraction COMPLETELY out of the equation, most men wouldnt hang out with women. thats why men dont hang out with effeminate gay dudes. cause theyre like women you would never f*ck. the most annoying creatures on the face of the earth.

so, thats why we cheat. if ur woman cant cook, but theres a spanish spot on the corner with outstanding arroz con pollo.. you might have to step out for a bite every now and then.. doesnt mean you dont love ur woman, just means you dont love her food. its not personal.

and there are PLENTY of good men out there. the thing is, they are still MEN. they want the same thing scumbags want. an attractive woman, with good pussy, that can cook and clean, and not bother him all the time. thats it. truth is good men and bad men arent much different. they usually hangout with each other on weekends. the difference is patience. good guys usually have more patience, and a higher tolerance for bs.. while the "bad guy", he just does what works to get what he can get.. "f*ck it.. they like shiny sh*t? money? dick pics? big cars? loud clothes? champagne? sh*t talkers?.. so be it!"

so dont ask urself, "why do men do that?".. try asking urself, "why does it work?"


So....now most of the responses in this particular thread were from women...most men agreed with little elaboration for doing so...I wanted to post it here because I am really interested in more thoughts and opinions on this particular answer and any thing else you lovely men and women have to say...I hope you enjoy the thread as well as the topic....Thank You...Ginger!!!